Have you ever been in a situation where you think to yourself "can I ever forgive this person " I know I have . I am grateful that I found forgiveness as I know some people can find this very hard to forgive especially if someone has hurt you or someone close to you and this is ok if you cant forgive them .
However for myself I found forgiveness was my own personal gift to myself hence why I called this blog by that sentence . I found that forgiving healed me through my journey because I let go of all anger and upset to carry on with my happy future that I had always wanted. By forgiving it made me realise that no matter how much someone can hurt you , you are your own person and its how you deal with the situation that defines you as a person.
Sometimes people believe they have forgiven and forgotten very quick and this is because they want to forgive and forget quickly as they probably dont want to be reminded of what happened this sometimes turns out to be even worse for yourself as all your doing is compressing your feelings until one day you feel overwhelmed and realise you still may hate them . Forgiveness takes time and you wanting to forgive can also take time .
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