I wanted to write about this as I had an interesting conversation with a good friend of mine about what is the right way in life ? The answer is there is no right or wrong way . Some people may think for example that buying a house is the right way and by renting there wasting there money and some other people may be happy to just rent as they can change their location and have no strain on paying their mortgage on time . That is peoples choices and there is no right or wrong way in which people decide to do so . In life couples want to get married to show their love to another and others choose that they don't need to get married to show their love ......again another perfect example on something that there is no right or wrong way . I have friends that are married and are very happy and I also have a set of friends that never want to get married and are as just as happy as the couple that are married. I wanted to write this because I do sometimes feel that our world is becoming to feel that there is a right way and when they follow the correct way its not actually the correct way for them . For example I believed a few years ago that buying a house was the correct thing to do however in fact I was too young and now love my rented property so much more then I ever did when I owned a property . This is because i thought buying a house was the "right thing" to do so my advice to everyone is don't follow what everyone else is doing its what works for you not anyone else . This goes for a lot of things in life to with people asking questions to people like "when are you getting married? when are you having a baby ? "Have you brought a house yet ?" Sometimes this puts pressure on people and in fact they may just want to go on nice holidays and never want to get married or have children so my message is to carry on following your heart and make sure you enjoy your life because you want too not because your making others happy .
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